Impulsive Mind

Impulsive mind or should I say spontaneous mind...this is what my post says today...actually I think that should be Hitting without knowing your aim !!!!
I always have a habit of speaking without giving anything a second thought, I know this happens to me...But I get real frustrated when it happens at wrong times...only to find at the end that I AM SCREWED !!!!!

It was a rather stupid day of mine I guess, which lead to nothing and thinking after its all done..."why did i do that?????????? " and trust me that question marks keeps bugging you for a day or two until you come back to being you again. I have special highlights for people falling in such situations:

1. Not thinking about the what your going to say next.
2. Spilling all the beans around and being happy about it.
3. Later you start thinking about what was said.
4. Realization that you should have kept the beans with you instead of spilling it.
5. No highlights left for point 5..coz by then you are SCREWED !!!!

I don't analyze things....may be that's why that thinking part before saying doesn't seems to come up for me. Most of the talkative people (I am proud to include the "ME" in this one), when start a conversation they really do not know where to stop. So what is the solution?? I have been now developing a habit of questioning my mind before spilling things from my mouth.

• Is what your are about to say right?
• Is it the right time to say that?
• Is the talk going to effect you in a negative way?
• and the most important is it useful?

Good one right? This way interactions will remain short, efficient and most of all feelings will not be affected. :) It is even better at times to stay quiet just by knowing that you are right in your way and need no approval of anybody to prove that. After all no one can change your opinion then why talk?

Thursday Thoughts

As i was browsing i found a very cute picture and as my head struck over this one. Here it is on my post today...


This pics reminds me about those special people in life whom we dont see often but when we think of them, that thought itself brings a smile on the face. It depicts a simple gesture of love which always finds a way to you. :) :)

have you ever found yourself thinking about someone which have left that smile on your face and that too in a situation where people may notice you???...but only you know the reason for your smile. :) :)

There he stands !!!

Sitting on the couch staring at a pair of black floaters lying near the door, this was the moment when i thought to write about a person whom I love the most in this world.
This is a person who has always put his child's wants and needs ahead of his own. The greatest gift that I received from god, I call him PAPA.

A person who doesn't speak much and is always content with what he has. His love and care has no boundaries to spare. For my papa priority means daughters. I have always been silent with my dad and some way down the line we understood this silence between us. But I know he is the best person when I want to ask things. I appear as a silent little sweet girl (hehe..another side of me) in front of him obeying all the things, but on the contrary he knows my fun side very well. I remember those times of watching cricket and hockey together. Dancing at the mid of the night for an Indian win and waking up divi (my sis) and mom from their dreams. It has always been fun with papa and will always be.With a face having a look of strictness.. but deep inside lies a silent caring heart of goodness. A man who has always stood tall..He means the world to me. There may be indifference's and misconceptions between us, but it doesn't matter when your love is strong, stronger enough to forget and forgive them and my dad, you have always done that.

Hey popsy, I may have never said these things to you but deep in my heart you are admired and adored. I have seen this man struggle and ultimately gain success and respect of lots of people. They say tough times don't last ..tough people do. That's my papa.

Right from the time I spent on my papa's knees till today, each and every small little things about him have inspired and developed me. The relationship with him always gives me a vision and hope to change things, to overcome failures and build healthy relations with others. I know I will make him proud someday...and yes I know I will. :) :)
Just want to thank him for the most I know today, to be a good human being.

Whatever I do..wherever I go..there will always be one thing which will be remain forever and that is my love for my papa.